Obsidian 的创始人在他的推文中曾经分享过40 questions to ask yourself every year，这其实是更多的一种锻炼，如果没有足够的意志力或者在认真观察这一整年的日子，没有办法坦然面对面前的这四十个问题，我想尽量缩短来快问快答。

1. What did you do this year that you’d never done before?

   是的，今年我第一次做了父亲，这种体验是之前从未有过的，而且我想随着他的成长同时带来给我的每年都会是不一样的体验。

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions?

   上一年并没有回答这个问题好像也并没有设立目标，真是遗憾。

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

   yes my wife

4. Did anyone close to you die?

   Thanks God. No 希望明年也是一样的答案

5. What cities/states/countries did you visit?

   昆明

6. What would you like to have next year that you lacked this year?

   平静的心态，之前每年都缺少，希望下一年能够获得平静

7. What date(s) from this year will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

   小孩出生的那天，显而易见的答案

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?

   我终于辞职了，并且找到了一个新工作

9. What was your biggest failure?

   I am not sure what kind of things can be defined as a failure, all of these are only choices, the good one or bad one, only the way we choosed.

10. What other hardships did you face?

    缺少的睡眠和夫妻关系的明显变化。多了一个孩子以后明显的变化就是需要耗费大量的时间在孩子身上，而且家庭中的主要目光转向了孩子而两个人之间的关系不是微妙的而是明显的变化。

11. Did you suffer illness or injury?

    No

12. What was the best thing you bought?

    NAS，但是我也不知道该怎么展开说，毕竟我在这次硬盘涨价前一下子买好了NAS怎么也算是一种运气。

13. Whose behavior merited celebration?

    once you have a baby first year, all of you think about is this thing. of course my wife need a huge celebration, or i can say the baby himself is a kind of celebration for me .

14. Whose behavior made you appalled?

    似乎暂时没有。

15. Where did most of your money go?

    my baby and my wife

16. What did you get really, really, really excited about?

    暂时没有，我认为我现在的心情是变得越来越平和

17. What song will always remind you of this year?

    陈奕迅的《任我行》

18. Compared to this time last year, are you: happier or sadder? Richer or poorer? Healthier or unhealthier?

    happier of course

    poorer may be

    healthier

19. What do you wish you’d done more of?

    更多地锻炼身体和更多地练习自己感兴趣的事情

20. What do you wish you’d done of?

    不把时间用在无意义的视频和社交平台上

21. How are you spending the holidays?

    clean my room

22. Did you fall in love this year?

    no

23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?

    没有，我宽恕所有人

24. What was your favorite show?

    怪奇物语最后一季

25. What was the best book you read?

    机器人大师

26. What was your greatest musical discovery of the year?

    没有。我也很后悔自己听歌越来越少了。

27. What was your favorite film?

    今年可能是破地狱？今年我甚至看电影都很少了。

28. What was your favorite meal?

    桑拿鸡

29. What did you want and get?

    a good nas and my first Mac and renew my iPhone

30. What did you want and not get?

    a new iPad?

31. What did you do on your birthday?

    就是很平常地吃了个饭和蛋糕，和老婆一起庆祝了

32. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?

    运动，和继续创作的冲动

33. How would you describe your personal fashion this year?

    i hate jeans

34. What kept you sane?

    clean my room again and again

35. Which celebrity/public figure did you admire the most?

    罗永浩的播客里面请的几位嘉宾我其实都很喜欢，可能再加上 carl Pei

36. What political issue stirred you the most?

    bro, i am a Chinese

37. Who did you miss?

    i miss all of my friends i havent seen for a long time

38. Who was the best new person you met?

    None

39. What valuable life lesson did you learn this year?

    抚养一个新的生命真的很累

40. What is a quote that sums up your year?

    与其感慨路难行，不如马上出发。